Hen parties are one of the best parts of the wedding planning process, and not just because it’s one of the few things the bride doesn’t have to plan!
Don't stick to tradition
When planning a hen party, it doesn’t have to be the usual wild night out or crazy drunken weekend that we have become accustomed to. For her last night of freedom, it should be all about the bride-to-be, so cater to the bride’s personality. Whether it be a daytime boat trip, a girlie sleepover, or a wine tasting session at a vineyard, keep in mind that your options are not limited to fluffy tiaras and willy straws! For some elegant hen party ideas, check these out.
Don't get flustered
With a large group to co-ordinate with, planning is key. From transport, to accommodation and activities, meeting with the hen party beforehand is probably the safest option. It’s here that you can all share your opinions and your expectations of the hen celebrations. When it’s all been agreed upon, send a detailed itinerary so people know what is to be expected of them and most importantly, what to pack. Money can also be an issue when involving a bigger group of people so agree on a set price each lady will be spending, so as you’re not left with a nasty unpaid bill your forced to foot. If the majority vote rules in favour of a pricier affair, ensure friends and family who can’t afford the same amount, can join in with some more budget-friendly events.
Don't just wing it
Choosing a theme for the hen party will focus your mind more clearly on the task in hand! From decorations, to party favours and costumes, a theme will not only make the event more original, but it will also be a million times easier to plan. Have a brainstorming session to establish the bride’s favourite things such as a decade, music, colours or hobbies and incorporate this into your theme. Even if your theme just consists of a specific colour scheme or general style, it will definitely help focus your mind.
Three's a crowd
Tensions can be heightened and personalities clash when different groups of friends and family blend together for one event. It’s of the upmost importance that everyone gets along and feels comfortable with one another, for the bride’s happiness on her final night of freedom. If you’ve chosen to stay in a hotel, carefully plan out the sleeping arrangements beforehand and steer conversations away from any delicate topics, which may aggravate some guests. Be wary of any tensions between guests before the hen party so you know who to keep away from who.
Don't leave it too late
Take it from us, you don't want to leave it too close to your wedding day to have your hen party. For a start, you don't want the last few days or weeks to be fraught with a hangover from your wild weekend. Second of all, you don't want to risk any bumps, bruises or serious injuries and you'd be surprised how many hens, even the tamest ones, end up in bumps and bruises. Leave a good amount of time between the wedding and the hen so you have time to plan it and time to recover from it, while keeping the final few weeks free to focus on the wedding.
- Michelle Storey
Image credits: Hen party: Pollen Floral Design | Champagne: Pinterest | Cake topper: Etsy